He goes over to the dogs crate. "Haarrrry! Good Morning Harry!" In his loud, squeaky, annoying voice. He can't get to me...so he annoys the dog. When the dog yelps...I awake from the dead. Damnit! "Put the dog down." I say as calmly as I can.
"I just want to say good morning. I just want to kiss him," he says again in his squeaky, annoying voice.
"Please leave my room."
"Why do you try to force me? Why are you being mean? All you think about is yourself mom. Why do you have to be so selfish?" This is his latest script. I hear this at least 20 times per day.
"Why are you being inconsiderate of the fact that we are still sleeping?" There goes that Aspergian mind-blindness.
He sits there on the floor refusing to leave. He starts talking to the dog again. I ask him again nicely to leave the room. He refuses. He wants attention however he can get it.
The dog yelps and groans as if to say, "Leave me the f#*k alone!" Unfortunately, he doesn't bite.
I stand on my feet and grab a belt. "Leave my room NOW!" I say in my most authoritative voice.
"Why are you so mad?" he asks? He gets up and leaves --finally.
I close my eyes and try to go back to sleep. A few minutes later...here comes Blue.
"Good morning mom! What do you want for breakfast today?"
My eyes are closed! Why are they talking to me? Why did I think once they became teenagers and could cook for themselves or poor their own bowl of freakin cereal --I would be able to sleep in?
Wishful thinking leads to wishful drinking. All I want for breakfast is Baileys and coffee.
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Adelaide Dupont · 285 weeks ago
And for those of us who knew and appreciated these points in high school to a greater or lesser extent - always good to have a refresher and feel them through the current and future generations who we survived to be able to see.
I especially appreciated points 5, 7 and 10.
And young women not settling or settling down yet is a good thing.
"It's never too late to live our dreams" - but it may be too early for some of them!
And 8 of course.
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Maira L. Coral · 216 weeks ago
I was looking for information for my Multi-Genre Disability Research Project from my Early Childhood Special Education class on the web, when suddenly I came across your blog. I started reading this out of curiosity and I want to tell you that as you said yourself, you will not be Amanda Gorman, but you managed to make me shed some tears, perhaps because I felt totally identified with your words, especially in the part that you speak of your son. My son also has Asperger's syndrome, he is 19 years old and he is in the second semester of College. Also like yours, he takes classes from home, likewise my eldest daughter is also taking college classes from her room. At the same time, that I work as a preschool teacher from my kitchen through a computer, my husband sleeps in the room during the day because he works at night. Also in the afternoons I myself take virtual school classes. I am a 51-year-old Latin woman who began to learn the English language as adult, so maybe you find some deficiencies in my writing, however, I was very moved by how proud you express yourself about your son. Referent your mother, I liked the humorous tone that you give when your talk about her, so I did not want to miss this opportunity and stopped my assignments for a moment to let you know that your words do make a difference, since they reach the heart of at least those who have opportunity to read you. I want confess you that is the most long I have written to someone I don't know, because your words inspired me, thank you...
Gavin Bollard · 209 weeks ago
Thanks for this post. I've been very distracted of late and so this was how I found out about our friend Kate. Kate's struggles were very real but they were so constant and so wide-ranging that it was difficult for people around her to address them. I think it's going to take a while longer for me to process all this.
I learned so much from Kate because she was always quick to point out the many injustices in the world. In her glory days, she was very much a crusader and she cared for everyone. Over the years, as her situation took its toll, I came to realise that it was the fact that she couldn't be put in a single specific category, that made the system fail her. She needed help that they weren't set up to provide.
She needed more care and she needed to be less alone. I'm so sorry that this has happened.
For a long while we were corresponding almost every day but a couple of months ago, I realised that she had become so stressed that nearly every interaction I had with her was starting to trigger her. I backed away to give her a bit more space. She only had a little time that she could stand to be online and there were too many things that she wanted to do in that time. I thought that by taking a step back, she could reach out to more people who might be geographically closer and able to assist.
Kate was a beautiful soul and she will be sorely missed by all of us.
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Spoil your cat · 122 weeks ago
Many of these living arrangement aren't good, and many of the people who run those places really don't have the residents' best interest at heart. Those places are like old age homes and foster homes, where you sometimes hear horror stories. They're hard to trust. But then there are good ones, of course.
The best thing for an autistic adult is either to go on living at home or working and renting an apartment and living independently, but that isn't always an option.
Duncan · 112 weeks ago