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Cell Phone rings 3:50 p.m. It's the middle school. Ugh! I get that sinking feeling in my stomach.
"This is so and so at blankety-blank middle school. You were supposed to return a transfer form for your son. The due date is April 8th."
"My son is not a transfer student." (I told the same woman this 3 weeks ago.)
After further clarification she says, "I'm so sorry. Please excuse the call."
Thank God no one is sick, hurt or in trouble. There has been no incident.
Five minutes later the cell rings again. Crap! This time it's the high school. Ugh!
"Mom...the bus is late. Can you come and pick me up? They're like 40 minutes late."
I look at my watch, it's 4:10 p.m. School let out 15 minutes ago. "I'm sorry son. I'm at the grocery store. I can't just drop everything to come and pick you up. The bus will be there any minute."
"Mom...why do you always have an excuse."
"Do I always have an excuse? You have a lot of excuses yourself."
"Mom...you're being selfish."
"Yeah...o.k. I have to pay for my groceries." I certainly don't have the time or desire to listen to this. As far as I'm concerned, he's on my time. My time with him doesn't start until that bus drops him off.
"But Mom..."
"Good-bye Red."
The good news is...he wasn't yelling. He kept his voice very calm. Don't get too excited. This is only because he was in the office at school.
O.K. Here's one more for your money:
Tween conversation during carpool this morning:
"How did everyone sleep last night?" Mom says.
"Not good. I had to get up at 6:45 this morning. I'm still tired," says our friend.
"Well what time did you go to bed?" asks Blue.
"Like 10 something."
"Well that explains it," says Blue. "You should go to bed at like 9 o'clock," says Blue.
"Dude...don't you know I'm lazy. I like to stay up late and play video games."
"Ugh...that's not exactly something you should shout out --or be proud of."
Got to love that brutal honesty.
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Cell Phone rings 3:50 p.m. It's the middle school. Ugh! I get that sinking feeling in my stomach.
"This is so and so at blankety-blank middle school. You were supposed to return a transfer form for your son. The due date is April 8th."
"My son is not a transfer student." (I told the same woman this 3 weeks ago.)
After further clarification she says, "I'm so sorry. Please excuse the call."
Thank God no one is sick, hurt or in trouble. There has been no incident.
Five minutes later the cell rings again. Crap! This time it's the high school. Ugh!
"Mom...the bus is late. Can you come and pick me up? They're like 40 minutes late."
I look at my watch, it's 4:10 p.m. School let out 15 minutes ago. "I'm sorry son. I'm at the grocery store. I can't just drop everything to come and pick you up. The bus will be there any minute."
"Mom...why do you always have an excuse."
"Do I always have an excuse? You have a lot of excuses yourself."
"Mom...you're being selfish."
"Yeah...o.k. I have to pay for my groceries." I certainly don't have the time or desire to listen to this. As far as I'm concerned, he's on my time. My time with him doesn't start until that bus drops him off.
"But Mom..."
"Good-bye Red."
The good news is...he wasn't yelling. He kept his voice very calm. Don't get too excited. This is only because he was in the office at school.
O.K. Here's one more for your money:
Tween conversation during carpool this morning:
"How did everyone sleep last night?" Mom says.
"Not good. I had to get up at 6:45 this morning. I'm still tired," says our friend.
"Well what time did you go to bed?" asks Blue.
"Like 10 something."
"Well that explains it," says Blue. "You should go to bed at like 9 o'clock," says Blue.
"Dude...don't you know I'm lazy. I like to stay up late and play video games."
"Ugh...that's not exactly something you should shout out --or be proud of."
Got to love that brutal honesty.
Keep me on top at Top Mommy! Click, Click, Click
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Adelaide Dupont · 285 weeks ago
And for those of us who knew and appreciated these points in high school to a greater or lesser extent - always good to have a refresher and feel them through the current and future generations who we survived to be able to see.
I especially appreciated points 5, 7 and 10.
And young women not settling or settling down yet is a good thing.
"It's never too late to live our dreams" - but it may be too early for some of them!
And 8 of course.
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Maira L. Coral · 216 weeks ago
I was looking for information for my Multi-Genre Disability Research Project from my Early Childhood Special Education class on the web, when suddenly I came across your blog. I started reading this out of curiosity and I want to tell you that as you said yourself, you will not be Amanda Gorman, but you managed to make me shed some tears, perhaps because I felt totally identified with your words, especially in the part that you speak of your son. My son also has Asperger's syndrome, he is 19 years old and he is in the second semester of College. Also like yours, he takes classes from home, likewise my eldest daughter is also taking college classes from her room. At the same time, that I work as a preschool teacher from my kitchen through a computer, my husband sleeps in the room during the day because he works at night. Also in the afternoons I myself take virtual school classes. I am a 51-year-old Latin woman who began to learn the English language as adult, so maybe you find some deficiencies in my writing, however, I was very moved by how proud you express yourself about your son. Referent your mother, I liked the humorous tone that you give when your talk about her, so I did not want to miss this opportunity and stopped my assignments for a moment to let you know that your words do make a difference, since they reach the heart of at least those who have opportunity to read you. I want confess you that is the most long I have written to someone I don't know, because your words inspired me, thank you...
Gavin Bollard · 209 weeks ago
Thanks for this post. I've been very distracted of late and so this was how I found out about our friend Kate. Kate's struggles were very real but they were so constant and so wide-ranging that it was difficult for people around her to address them. I think it's going to take a while longer for me to process all this.
I learned so much from Kate because she was always quick to point out the many injustices in the world. In her glory days, she was very much a crusader and she cared for everyone. Over the years, as her situation took its toll, I came to realise that it was the fact that she couldn't be put in a single specific category, that made the system fail her. She needed help that they weren't set up to provide.
She needed more care and she needed to be less alone. I'm so sorry that this has happened.
For a long while we were corresponding almost every day but a couple of months ago, I realised that she had become so stressed that nearly every interaction I had with her was starting to trigger her. I backed away to give her a bit more space. She only had a little time that she could stand to be online and there were too many things that she wanted to do in that time. I thought that by taking a step back, she could reach out to more people who might be geographically closer and able to assist.
Kate was a beautiful soul and she will be sorely missed by all of us.
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Spoil your cat · 122 weeks ago
Many of these living arrangement aren't good, and many of the people who run those places really don't have the residents' best interest at heart. Those places are like old age homes and foster homes, where you sometimes hear horror stories. They're hard to trust. But then there are good ones, of course.
The best thing for an autistic adult is either to go on living at home or working and renting an apartment and living independently, but that isn't always an option.
Duncan · 112 weeks ago