Editorial note: The past few days have been an absolute circus. So this post had to be put on the back burner while I tended to the never-ending needs of my family. Finally here is Part 2 of this post
By fellow Confessions Mama --Lelinda Faulk
Accommodations
After spending a great deal of time preparing for the IEP meeting which I wrote about in "Surviving the IEP -Part 1", we came up with the following accommodations for my son. Note: there are many other accommodations that may be appropriate for your child. This is just a good example of a place to start.
By fellow Confessions Mama --Lelinda Faulk
Accommodations
After spending a great deal of time preparing for the IEP meeting which I wrote about in "Surviving the IEP -Part 1", we came up with the following accommodations for my son. Note: there are many other accommodations that may be appropriate for your child. This is just a good example of a place to start.
- He will have access to a fidget item for self-regulation, for tactile reminders, and visual prompts for when he becomes off task and unfocused or if he needs assistance with stemming.
- He will have shortened assignments and increased time to complete assignments
- daily assignments will be broken down into shorter two step tasks as appropriate with completion expectations tied to a rewards system (positive reinforcement)
- Implement a transitional warning schedule to help with the transition struggle from subjects, concepts, or assignments throughout the day.
I was adamant about proactive not reactive communication on a regular scheduled basis and as needed with myself, the general education teacher and the special education teacher.
- The teacher will send a chart home every day and meet with his special ed teacher every three weeks (if this isn’t appropriate or the concept is brand new, request they meet more often.)
- Teachers cannot and should not use slang, sarcasm, or cycism when giving instruction, expectations or redirection.
- He will keep a daily agenda book in place for homework (he will write down assignments using assistance of a peer partner, and it will reviewed by the teacher for completion.
- He will have verbal reminders to turn in assignments and a peer partner to assist with functionality throughout the day. The teacher is to closely monitor this relationship and adjust as needed.
- He will have a red card to place on his desk when further instruction or clarification is needed.
- He will have the opportunity to retake any assignments he fails after being retaught the material (His IQ is superior, there’s no reason he shouldn’t master elementary school)
- For standardized testing formal or informal he will take in a less stimulating environment and have the opportunity to read the test to himself out loud along with have extra time. (Keep in mind if your child takes ANY modified versions of standardized test he will not be eligible for entry into a university directly after high school. They may have to graduate on an alternative plan. Depending on your plans, and your child’s goals this is something to think about.
- Written assignments (short comprehension answers) he can verbally give answers to the teacher.
- On written short story or essay assignments he will have concrete topics or a concrete variation of the topics (instead of writing about love or friendship he will write about traits of a good friend or a biography on a person he loves)
- He will not participate in P.E. He will obtain and meet his physical education requirement through outside Fitness.
I think the most important part of the ARD is to know your rights, and have an idea of some accommodations you’d like to see or try. Remember “advocate” really means pester. However, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar, so you may have to play nice, yet insistent to get what you need for your child. If you’re unsure...do not be afraid to ask for it. The school may not be able to meet the specific accommodation but may come up with something comparable.
Communication should not stop with the ARD. Keep speaking with your child's team regularly. When people know you are watching and involved in your child's educational process...they tend to do more.
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Special thanks to LeLinda for putting all of this information together for us all. I love my Facebook "Confessions" Community ~~Karen
Adelaide Dupont · 285 weeks ago
And for those of us who knew and appreciated these points in high school to a greater or lesser extent - always good to have a refresher and feel them through the current and future generations who we survived to be able to see.
I especially appreciated points 5, 7 and 10.
And young women not settling or settling down yet is a good thing.
"It's never too late to live our dreams" - but it may be too early for some of them!
And 8 of course.
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Maira L. Coral · 216 weeks ago
I was looking for information for my Multi-Genre Disability Research Project from my Early Childhood Special Education class on the web, when suddenly I came across your blog. I started reading this out of curiosity and I want to tell you that as you said yourself, you will not be Amanda Gorman, but you managed to make me shed some tears, perhaps because I felt totally identified with your words, especially in the part that you speak of your son. My son also has Asperger's syndrome, he is 19 years old and he is in the second semester of College. Also like yours, he takes classes from home, likewise my eldest daughter is also taking college classes from her room. At the same time, that I work as a preschool teacher from my kitchen through a computer, my husband sleeps in the room during the day because he works at night. Also in the afternoons I myself take virtual school classes. I am a 51-year-old Latin woman who began to learn the English language as adult, so maybe you find some deficiencies in my writing, however, I was very moved by how proud you express yourself about your son. Referent your mother, I liked the humorous tone that you give when your talk about her, so I did not want to miss this opportunity and stopped my assignments for a moment to let you know that your words do make a difference, since they reach the heart of at least those who have opportunity to read you. I want confess you that is the most long I have written to someone I don't know, because your words inspired me, thank you...
Gavin Bollard · 209 weeks ago
Thanks for this post. I've been very distracted of late and so this was how I found out about our friend Kate. Kate's struggles were very real but they were so constant and so wide-ranging that it was difficult for people around her to address them. I think it's going to take a while longer for me to process all this.
I learned so much from Kate because she was always quick to point out the many injustices in the world. In her glory days, she was very much a crusader and she cared for everyone. Over the years, as her situation took its toll, I came to realise that it was the fact that she couldn't be put in a single specific category, that made the system fail her. She needed help that they weren't set up to provide.
She needed more care and she needed to be less alone. I'm so sorry that this has happened.
For a long while we were corresponding almost every day but a couple of months ago, I realised that she had become so stressed that nearly every interaction I had with her was starting to trigger her. I backed away to give her a bit more space. She only had a little time that she could stand to be online and there were too many things that she wanted to do in that time. I thought that by taking a step back, she could reach out to more people who might be geographically closer and able to assist.
Kate was a beautiful soul and she will be sorely missed by all of us.
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Spoil your cat · 122 weeks ago
Many of these living arrangement aren't good, and many of the people who run those places really don't have the residents' best interest at heart. Those places are like old age homes and foster homes, where you sometimes hear horror stories. They're hard to trust. But then there are good ones, of course.
The best thing for an autistic adult is either to go on living at home or working and renting an apartment and living independently, but that isn't always an option.
Duncan · 112 weeks ago