Editorial Note: This was written by my 13 year-old son Blue. He was inspired after reading, "Freaks, Geeks and Aspergers" by then 13 year-old Luke Jackson. He put this article together...on his own and submitted it to his Language Arts teacher and to the Principal at his school. The school principal allowed him to read it on the daily announcements. When he came back to class, his peers gave him a standing ovation:
Do people call you a "freak?" Do you feel different from others? It may be what others think, but you're not a freak. You have a gift! Some people have autism and even more have ADHD, but this article focuses on Aspergers Syndrome (AS), which falls under the autism spectrum. This is a very helpful article.
So what is Aspergers you ask? Well...some kids say it's bad, but it's not! It's defined as a disability but I think it's a gift. (I know, I just repeated) It's also known as High Functioning Autism (HFA). People who have it have a few problems such as social skills, anxiety and more. So they may not have a lot of friends. or don't have any friends. But they are very smart too. They usually have a special interest and know a lot about it; sometimes they can bore you to death when they talk about it a lot. Some people think that they're freaks because of the bad things. We shouldn't judge their differences, we should help them, be a friend, support them and be kind.
Now there are other disabilities too. They also need help. Some AS peeps can't think about other people's feelings, they are stuck in their own closed world and even repeat themselves. Don't pick on people who are different because you are too!
For those of you bullies who tease them, or think you're popular, you are wrong. Popularity is not real. You are no better than them! Remember, everyone is unique and should be themselves. It makes me feel horrible when others criticize me for being myself. You shouldn't have to be someone else to fit in. You should be able to be yourself. You chose who you want to be!
People with Asperger's Syndrome may help change the world if we put down our differences and accept each other. When they are adults, they will have worked on and learned how to handle their AS. Having Aspergers to me, helps me focus on my interest and know a lot about it, like computers and cars. I try to help others in lots of ways, especially kids with AS. I even spoke twice at a teachers conference about AS so they could help their students with AS. I am a compassionate person.
So now you have some information about autism, try to be a friend. Remember AS peeps, you are not a freak! You are unique. Others, please be considerate.
If you want to know more about teens with Aspergers, I'd recommend a very good book by a 13 year-old with Aspergers called, "Freaks, Geeks and Aspergers Syndrome." There are other good books to educate youself. I would recommend you read them, or just talk to me. Try to understand people with autism and be patient.
Oh and it's cool to be different. I hope that this article helped someone's life. I really want to impact their lives in a good way.
"If we cannot end now our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity." -John F. Kennedy.
While Blue was reading this announcement over the P.A. system, there was an ARD (Admissions, Review, Dismissal) meeting going on. The parents were facing the option of having their child evaluated for autism and putting him in to the Social skills support system that the school has to offer. After hearing Blue speak they said, "If you can do that for our son...sign us up!"
Yep...he got his wish. He changed at least one life. I didn't give him the extraordinary math and science gene...but I think I gave him the gift of wanting to make the world a better place.
I am one proud mama!
If you are interested in reading the book, to Help Support The Blog you can purchase it here:
Do people call you a "freak?" Do you feel different from others? It may be what others think, but you're not a freak. You have a gift! Some people have autism and even more have ADHD, but this article focuses on Aspergers Syndrome (AS), which falls under the autism spectrum. This is a very helpful article.
So what is Aspergers you ask? Well...some kids say it's bad, but it's not! It's defined as a disability but I think it's a gift. (I know, I just repeated) It's also known as High Functioning Autism (HFA). People who have it have a few problems such as social skills, anxiety and more. So they may not have a lot of friends. or don't have any friends. But they are very smart too. They usually have a special interest and know a lot about it; sometimes they can bore you to death when they talk about it a lot. Some people think that they're freaks because of the bad things. We shouldn't judge their differences, we should help them, be a friend, support them and be kind.
Now there are other disabilities too. They also need help. Some AS peeps can't think about other people's feelings, they are stuck in their own closed world and even repeat themselves. Don't pick on people who are different because you are too!
For those of you bullies who tease them, or think you're popular, you are wrong. Popularity is not real. You are no better than them! Remember, everyone is unique and should be themselves. It makes me feel horrible when others criticize me for being myself. You shouldn't have to be someone else to fit in. You should be able to be yourself. You chose who you want to be!
People with Asperger's Syndrome may help change the world if we put down our differences and accept each other. When they are adults, they will have worked on and learned how to handle their AS. Having Aspergers to me, helps me focus on my interest and know a lot about it, like computers and cars. I try to help others in lots of ways, especially kids with AS. I even spoke twice at a teachers conference about AS so they could help their students with AS. I am a compassionate person.
So now you have some information about autism, try to be a friend. Remember AS peeps, you are not a freak! You are unique. Others, please be considerate.
If you want to know more about teens with Aspergers, I'd recommend a very good book by a 13 year-old with Aspergers called, "Freaks, Geeks and Aspergers Syndrome." There are other good books to educate youself. I would recommend you read them, or just talk to me. Try to understand people with autism and be patient.
Oh and it's cool to be different. I hope that this article helped someone's life. I really want to impact their lives in a good way.
"If we cannot end now our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity." -John F. Kennedy.
While Blue was reading this announcement over the P.A. system, there was an ARD (Admissions, Review, Dismissal) meeting going on. The parents were facing the option of having their child evaluated for autism and putting him in to the Social skills support system that the school has to offer. After hearing Blue speak they said, "If you can do that for our son...sign us up!"
Yep...he got his wish. He changed at least one life. I didn't give him the extraordinary math and science gene...but I think I gave him the gift of wanting to make the world a better place.
I am one proud mama!
If you are interested in reading the book, to Help Support The Blog you can purchase it here:
Adelaide Dupont · 285 weeks ago
And for those of us who knew and appreciated these points in high school to a greater or lesser extent - always good to have a refresher and feel them through the current and future generations who we survived to be able to see.
I especially appreciated points 5, 7 and 10.
And young women not settling or settling down yet is a good thing.
"It's never too late to live our dreams" - but it may be too early for some of them!
And 8 of course.
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Maira L. Coral · 216 weeks ago
I was looking for information for my Multi-Genre Disability Research Project from my Early Childhood Special Education class on the web, when suddenly I came across your blog. I started reading this out of curiosity and I want to tell you that as you said yourself, you will not be Amanda Gorman, but you managed to make me shed some tears, perhaps because I felt totally identified with your words, especially in the part that you speak of your son. My son also has Asperger's syndrome, he is 19 years old and he is in the second semester of College. Also like yours, he takes classes from home, likewise my eldest daughter is also taking college classes from her room. At the same time, that I work as a preschool teacher from my kitchen through a computer, my husband sleeps in the room during the day because he works at night. Also in the afternoons I myself take virtual school classes. I am a 51-year-old Latin woman who began to learn the English language as adult, so maybe you find some deficiencies in my writing, however, I was very moved by how proud you express yourself about your son. Referent your mother, I liked the humorous tone that you give when your talk about her, so I did not want to miss this opportunity and stopped my assignments for a moment to let you know that your words do make a difference, since they reach the heart of at least those who have opportunity to read you. I want confess you that is the most long I have written to someone I don't know, because your words inspired me, thank you...
Gavin Bollard · 209 weeks ago
Thanks for this post. I've been very distracted of late and so this was how I found out about our friend Kate. Kate's struggles were very real but they were so constant and so wide-ranging that it was difficult for people around her to address them. I think it's going to take a while longer for me to process all this.
I learned so much from Kate because she was always quick to point out the many injustices in the world. In her glory days, she was very much a crusader and she cared for everyone. Over the years, as her situation took its toll, I came to realise that it was the fact that she couldn't be put in a single specific category, that made the system fail her. She needed help that they weren't set up to provide.
She needed more care and she needed to be less alone. I'm so sorry that this has happened.
For a long while we were corresponding almost every day but a couple of months ago, I realised that she had become so stressed that nearly every interaction I had with her was starting to trigger her. I backed away to give her a bit more space. She only had a little time that she could stand to be online and there were too many things that she wanted to do in that time. I thought that by taking a step back, she could reach out to more people who might be geographically closer and able to assist.
Kate was a beautiful soul and she will be sorely missed by all of us.
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Spoil your cat · 122 weeks ago
Many of these living arrangement aren't good, and many of the people who run those places really don't have the residents' best interest at heart. Those places are like old age homes and foster homes, where you sometimes hear horror stories. They're hard to trust. But then there are good ones, of course.
The best thing for an autistic adult is either to go on living at home or working and renting an apartment and living independently, but that isn't always an option.
Duncan · 112 weeks ago